29 | Male | Clinical Psychologist |
No longer single.
I think a lot about my ideal relationship.
Edging, sadism, domestic discipline, punishment, humiliation, cnc, and more. The posts are fantasy (mostly) and I strongly believe in positive consent irl.
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There’s something almost magical about eye-contact. When we look someone in the eyes we become deeply aware that right here, before me, is another consciousness looking back. She’s looking at me, looking at her, looking at me, looking at her.
Often eye-contact is the first seed of love. This has been replicated in psychological experiments. Getting to know someone personally, combined with prolonged eye-contact, is sufficient for two people to fall in love.
I like it when we fall in love. And for me there’s nothing more intimate, nothing more personal, than my sadism. So I tell her, “Look at me.”
And I see her. And I see that she sees me, choosing to hurt her. I know she’s not an object, that’s exactly the thing. I know she feels pain, embarrassment, frustration, humiliation. But I still chose to dominate her. I still decide that our relationship is going to be unfair.
Sadism is not about a lack of empathy. More than anything it is about love.
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There’s something almost magical about eye-contact. When we look someone in the eyes we become deeply aware that right here, before me, is another consciousness looking back. She’s looking at me, looking at her, looking at me, looking at her.
Often eye-contact is the first seed of love. This has been replicated in psychological experiments. Getting to know someone personally, combined with prolonged eye-contact, is sufficient for two people to fall in love.
I like it when we fall in love. And for me there’s nothing more intimate, nothing more personal, than my sadism. So I tell her, “Look at me.”
And I see her. And I see that she sees me, choosing to hurt her. I know she’s not an object, that’s exactly the thing. I know she feels pain, embarrassment, frustration, humiliation. But I still chose to dominate her. I still decide that our relationship is going to be unfair.
Sadism is not about a lack of empathy. More than anything it is about love.