29 | Male | Clinical Psychologist |
No longer single.
I think a lot about my ideal relationship.
Edging, sadism, domestic discipline, punishment, humiliation, cnc, and more. The posts are fantasy (mostly) and I strongly believe in positive consent irl.
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One might assume that it is the submissive that has to cultivate her enjoyment of punishments. But I've found that the sub's enjoyment is more simple than one would expect. She get's to be corrected. She get's consequences. That's what she deeply wants.
As a sadist you should cultivate your enjoyment of punishments. You have to savour every moment. And a large part of that is the patience to enjoy her anticipation.
When she's tied up, worried about what you're going to do today, look her in the eyes. Look how cute she is. Connect with her. Let the silence and the anticipation grow.
In that moment, tied up, exposed, vulnerable, the underlying psychology of your relationship is completely salient. You can do whatever you want with her. That makes her afraid. That makes her eager to please. And you like it when she's scared.
Enjoy her anticipation. Just as you enjoy her tears and her apologies. And her obedience. And her love.
Then you hurt her. Just the way you like it.
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One might assume that it is the submissive that has to cultivate her enjoyment of punishments. But I've found that the sub's enjoyment is more simple than one would expect. She get's to be corrected. She get's consequences. That's what she deeply wants.
As a sadist you should cultivate your enjoyment of punishments. You have to savour every moment. And a large part of that is the patience to enjoy her anticipation.
When she's tied up, worried about what you're going to do today, look her in the eyes. Look how cute she is. Connect with her. Let the silence and the anticipation grow.
In that moment, tied up, exposed, vulnerable, the underlying psychology of your relationship is completely salient. You can do whatever you want with her. That makes her afraid. That makes her eager to please. And you like it when she's scared.
Enjoy her anticipation. Just as you enjoy her tears and her apologies. And her obedience. And her love.
Then you hurt her. Just the way you like it.